Actor overlaps another actor causes touch to move problems [SOLVED]

jsorr2

I have items (actors) in an inventory box that I can move around and are constrained to my mouse while touch is pressed. But if two different items (actors) overlap, when touch is pressed it moves both actors. How can I either move the one on top if pressed, or make it so if an item actor overlaps/collides with another while touch isnt pressed then move it slightly (while confined to the inventory box) so they aren't on top of each other?
(If I do it the second way, I would need a global rule for all items, and if they all have "move if collide" - if they collide both items will move, which isnt good!)

EDIT: solution http://forums.gamesalad.com/discussion/73863/actors-overlapping-how-to-not-detect-touch-on-bottom-actor

sorry!